"Words have meaning, they carry weight long after you've said them."
Why do words play such a huge roll in our lives? Words hurt us, elate us, affect us, break our hearts, send us over the edge, upset us, anger us. We were always taught to think before we speak but that requires such a combination of thinking with your head and letting your heart take a break because when you are using word for a purpose, it is difficult to pump the brakes and think, before you let the words take control.
If you are like me, words can affect you, heavily. You are extremely sensitive and you let them nag at you and get to you and you don't ever forget the ones that affected you deeply, whether in a happy way or a way that hurt you. You offer words to others that are helpful and meaningful and words that you would like to hear yourself. If you are like me, words are your main language, in love, friendship, relationships and in every other main aspect. Words are important for you to hear. Hearing that you're appreciated, that you are loved, are getting feedback on something you have done is extremely crucial to who you are.
Three or four words can ruin your whole day, or make it everything.
"I love you." Usually comes from a family member or close friend, makes you feel warm & safe.
"I'm proud of you." In my opinion, best words to hear in all aspects.
"You're a bitch." Usually doesn't bother you because it's generally said in a joking manner with close friends, but when you hear it several times, and you are me, you do in fact start to think you are a bitch and it stings.
"I am lost without you." Recently heard this one. Made me sad, made me wish this persons life was in a different place.
"I miss you." Sad & happy feelings come from this one, for me.
Words combined together, in quote form, uplift and inspire us. Words combined together in argument form, wear and tear us down.
Regret, shame, hope, happiness, love and sorrow can come from words. Use them wisely.
Why do words play such a huge roll in our lives? Words hurt us, elate us, affect us, break our hearts, send us over the edge, upset us, anger us. We were always taught to think before we speak but that requires such a combination of thinking with your head and letting your heart take a break because when you are using word for a purpose, it is difficult to pump the brakes and think, before you let the words take control.
If you are like me, words can affect you, heavily. You are extremely sensitive and you let them nag at you and get to you and you don't ever forget the ones that affected you deeply, whether in a happy way or a way that hurt you. You offer words to others that are helpful and meaningful and words that you would like to hear yourself. If you are like me, words are your main language, in love, friendship, relationships and in every other main aspect. Words are important for you to hear. Hearing that you're appreciated, that you are loved, are getting feedback on something you have done is extremely crucial to who you are.
Three or four words can ruin your whole day, or make it everything.
"I love you." Usually comes from a family member or close friend, makes you feel warm & safe.
"I'm proud of you." In my opinion, best words to hear in all aspects.
"You're a bitch." Usually doesn't bother you because it's generally said in a joking manner with close friends, but when you hear it several times, and you are me, you do in fact start to think you are a bitch and it stings.
"I am lost without you." Recently heard this one. Made me sad, made me wish this persons life was in a different place.
"I miss you." Sad & happy feelings come from this one, for me.
Words combined together, in quote form, uplift and inspire us. Words combined together in argument form, wear and tear us down.
Regret, shame, hope, happiness, love and sorrow can come from words. Use them wisely.
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